11/10/25
When I started down the coaching path, I trained in health and wellness. I unfortunately found that uninspiring. Then I stumble on to the book Reality Transurfing and that inspired something inside me. The book is about conscious reality creation. All of us, whether or not we know, create our reality. I don't just mean the actions we take when we pursue our personal life paths (like marriage) or we go into our careers/professions. We actually manifest all the opportunities. Someone knows someone else that connects us with another person to get the job, the spouse or the opportunity. We act like it's all an accident when it's no such thing. Your thoughts, desires and emotions created those connections. Nothing happens by chance. And the world is our mirror. It reflects back to us all our beliefs. Then we use confirmation bias which feeds back into our self belief system.
If a person believes that making money is a struggle, they will manifest poorly paying jobs (as one example) and then they will confirm for themself that making money is a struggle and the belief feeds itself until they break the pattern. We even manifest good or bad relationships depending on what we believe about ourselves. If we are insecure or feeling unworthy, we will attract someone with similar feelings about himself or herself. If each party is insecure, the relationship will likely have challenges. It sets the stage for exploitation, toxic behaviors or co-dependency. However, if one finds herself in a place of high self regard and self love (in a non-narcissistic way), then she will attract a person who will also regard her highly.
The world is our mirror. Change the image and your change your reality. The book Reality Transurfing thoroughly covers not only how to manifest, but also all the pitfalls around it. I personally struggle with pendulums. I give my energy away to things that don't serve me. I read new headlines or news stories particularly around politics....or I go on Facebook and form opinions (not of people but of events in my Feed....again a lot of it about news) and then this throws me off. I waste energy. I waste time. None of it is helpful to me. It simply drains me.
With that said, I've done some successful manifesting. I manifested money out of the blue when someone needed a place to stay for a while and she paid me to rent a room in the place I'm staying. The principles work. This doesn't mean that there's no effort required. You need to take intentional actions and then just assume it'll work out. If the mirror shows you an undesired result, then there's a belief lurking underneath that needs addressing. This is not magic, it's basically how the universe works. It's more akin to a law.
How does this relate to coaching divorced women?
I took a course called "High Impact Coaching". The value in the course is how to market myself. I honestly had no clue. I have a clue now. Interestingly, the course itself relies A LOT on manifestation practices and mindset. The rest of it is about social media and direct messaging and calls. They have suggested scripts for handling sales calls. It's what I needed if I seriously wanted to coach AND make money at it.
Part of the program is figuring out a niche. They made me refine my "offer" as in, who do I want to help and how do I want to help them. Since I'm divorced, I thought divorced women could use my help. And this is a group that really needs to learn manifestation techniques.
I decided not to teach them any of the spirituality. It's not needed for proper manifestation. It's really about where you focus your energy (your thoughts and emotions) and who you believe yourself to be. The good news is that we can change our self beliefs.
So, this week, I fully intend to DM a lot of people and memorize those sales call scripts so I can start booking a client. I made some YouTube videos that didn't go far and I figured out why. I'm not meeting them where they are at. So, I will focus on stress and anxiety relief. And then small steps that can make a difference. They need baby steps because they're sometimes so overwhelmed with getting through the day, they can't think about a "dream life". So that's my next step on the coaching front.
Thanks for reading!
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